This GRIEVING LOSS ritual/liturgy was designed for participants of HEALTHY GRIEVING workshops/retreats and follow-up Support Groups … those experiencing loss :  of a loved one; employment; housing; financial security; family pet; limb; eyesight; income; mobility; hearing; intellect; 
relationship; chronically-ill partner/spouse/close friend, etc.   For more info about HEALTHY GRIEVING workshops/retreats/support groups (a SOULISTRY-sponsored offering) contact june @ soulistry dot com

© june maffin

An Introduction
This ritual/liturgy emerged after decades of journeying with people who were experiencing a “blue” time at Christmas, Hanukkah, Eid, Yule etc.  When all around them was gaity, laughter, partying, they were experiencing sadness, mourning the loss of a relationship, or the loss of a loved one (who has died or who will not be with them over the holidays), dealing with health issues, financial concerns, the loss of their job, family pet, eyesight, income, mobility, hearing, intellect, etc. and their feelings were anything but festive.  I introduced the “Blue Christmas” liturgy to various churches over the years: music interspersed with readings, silence, candle lighting and remembering.  It was helpful for those who wanted and were physically able to come to a church service, but what about the others?

I believe that being gentle with ourselves is important whenever we encounter stress in our lives and because making time to grieve our loss (whatever form that takes) is vital to our overall health, I created the following.  It’s my hope and prayer that something in this ritual/liturgy will be of comfort to those grieving loss.  I appreciate and welcome your comments here or my email inbox.

Grieving Loss Ritual/Liturgy (lighting of candles, quiet reflection, inspiring quotations to ponder, quiet music in the background)
* As each candle of four candles is lit (hopefully in a darkened or semi-darkened room to get the full effect of light emanating from the candle), it might be helpful to have some quiet music in the bg or be in silence. Turn off the tv/loud music/cell phone and try not to begin this ritual when others might make demands on you. This is your time. As you speak/think each phrase, do it slowly, reflectively.   There is no need to hurry.

* You might choose the same colour for each of the four candles or mix and match your candles because of the symbolism associated with specific colours: blue – the colour of hope; white – the colour of wholeness; red – the colour of love; green – the colour of growth; purple – the colour of spirituality.

Directions are in bold. Words you say (aloud or silently in your heart) are in italics.
To begin … take a few slow, deep breaths inhaling a sense of peace and exhaling that which brings anxiety.    When your breathing has slowed down …

Light first candle
then say … aloud or silently in your heart
I light this candle to remember those persons who have been loved and are no longer are part of my life in any tangible way.
I pause to remember him/her/them.
(Give yourself time to remember and name him/her/them.)

I give thanks for a memory that connects him/her/them to me.
(Give yourself time to do this).

May Eternal Love surround him/her/them.

[Silent time for reflection and some gentle, deep breathing]

Light second candle
then say … aloud or silently in your heart
I light this second candle to redeem the pain of loss.
(Give yourself time to think of whatever and however you are experiencing loss at this time)

As I gather up the pain of the past, I offer it, asking that the gift of peace, of shalom, of wholeness be placed into my heart and open hands.
(Give yourself time to do this)

May I be refreshed, restored and renewed.

[Silent time for reflection and some gentle, deep breathing]

Light third candle.
I light this third candle to remember myself.

I pause and remember the past days, weeks, months (years): the down times, the poignancy of memories, the grief, the sadness, the hurts, the anger, the pain of reflecting on my own mortality.

If there is need for forgiveness – I offer it now, knowing that forgiveness is not forgetting, but it is letting go of whatever binds me to negative thought.  I choose  to forgive the other, forgive myself (forgive God if this is appropriate to your belief).
(Give yourself time to do this)

May I remember that dawn defeats darkness.
Take some time to reflect on the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson: “Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail” (first attributed to Confucius: “Our greatest glory is not in never falling down, but in getting up every time we do”) … the words ascribed to Buddha: “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection” … and the words of Claude Bristol: “It’s the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.  Once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.”

[Silent time of reflection and some gentle, deep breathing]




Light fourth candle

I light this fourth candle to remember the gift of hope.
I give thanks for that which is good in my life and name those people, situations, abilities, gifts, strengths/etc. for which I am grateful.
(Give yourself time to do this)

May I remember the words of Anne Lamott: “Hope begins in the dark, the stubborn hope that if you just show up and try to do the right thing, the dawn will come. You wait and watch and work: you don’t give up”.  
Take some time to reflect on the words of Pierre Teillard de Chardin: “If the only prayer you utter is ‘thank-you’, that would be sufficient” … and on the words written on a wall at Dachau prison — “I believe in the sun even when it’s not shining; I believe in the stars even when I see them not; I believe in God even when I don’t see God” … or as Earl Riney put it: “The stars are constantly shining, but often we do not see them until the dark hours.”
(Give yourself time to do this.)

[Silent time of reflection and some gentle, deep breathing]

Bring this ritual/liturgy to a conclusion by saying:  “Amen. So be it. Amen. (“Amen” simply means “So be it.”)

With the saying of “So be it – Amen,” it is time to do something for yourself: a long, leisurely hot bath; a steaming hot cup of tea/hot chocolate; time spent writing in your Journal; a walk in the outdoors; some quiet time in the darkness looking at the lit candles; listening to some gentle music.  Whether you are aware of it or not, there are people who are “with you.”  You are not alone.

If you are grieving the loss of a loved one and prayer is something that brings you comfort,

you might want to reflect on the following prayer, say it aloud or in the silence of your heart at Hanukkah, Christmas, the anniversary of the loss of your loved one, Winter Solstice, etc.

“God/Creator/Holy One (whichever is most appropriate for you to use), I come to you this Christmas /Solstice /winter time, with the pain inside me.  As the nights have been growing longer, so has the darkness wrapped itself around my heart.  In this season of our longest nights, I offer you the pain in my heart, the trauma of loss that I cannot put into words.

Compassionate One, death has changed my experience of this time of the year. Once it was a special day for me, but someone special has died.  This Season seems to bring forth a grieving over what might have been.  I ask you to be with me and help me through the difficult moments as the Christmas Season reminds me of all that used to be and cannot be anymore.  The memories of what once was, the fears of what may be, disquiet my soul.  All around, I hear the sounds of celebration.  But all I experience is a sense of feeling blue.

Please be near me at this time and even if I do not believe / no longer believe /or my belief is fragile, I offer this prayer “Help my unbelief … and bring healing to my soul.”

© june maffin     www.soulistry.com    june @ soulistry. com

Maffin has given us a real gift in “Soulistry”.

Unlike far too many books on spiritual matters, “Souistry” offers all comers a cordial and restorative way into the exploration and care of the interior life.

www.phyllistickle.com  Phyllis Tickle is the founding editor of the Religion Department of PUBLISHERS WEEKLY and was Academic Dean to the Memphis College of Art before entering full time into writing and publishing.

June Maffin delivers what the subtitle of her book promises, “Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality”.

Starting with the invention of a new word “SOULISTRY,” she guides her readers through the creation of a journal and lets them find their own “answers within”. She brings to the writing of this book an impressive educational background (ordained Anglican priest, PhD in pastoral theology among others) and a wide range of experience. However, the impact of an illness she suffered and the process of her healing became the primary impulse for writing this spiritual autobiography. Her approach combines spirituality and creativity.

The structure of the book offers a step-by-step guide to spiritual journaling. It is complex, yet easy to follow. The main and most important step is to move through the Journal Prompts and their Soul-Questions. This step is the crux and the purpose of the book.

The 86 Journal Prompts are inspirational quotations from extraordinary people from different centuries. Among those represented are priests (Herbert O’Driscoll), writers (Mark Twain), poets (Rainer Maria Rilke), philosophers (Lao Tzu), mystics (Julian of Norwich), monks (Thich Nhat Hanh), artists (Michelangelo), as well as proverbs. Some of the quotations and their authors are well known, others less so. All of them prompt a thought provoking response. Each quotation has a title such as Mystery, Faith, Happiness, Peace Within. The following Chinese proverb prompts the feeling of happiness.  “If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help someone else.”

Each Journal Prompt is accompanied by Soul-Questions. Together they are meant to stimulate the reader’s spiritual response and awareness. The title Happiness, for example, with its Chinese proverb prompt is followed by these Soulistry Soul-Questions:
* Do “being happy” and “being joyfulhave the same meaning for you?
*   If not, what is the difference?
*   What contributes to your happiness?
*   In your Soulistry Journal, reflect on a time in your life when you were happy. What was the occasion/circumstance? How did you feel?
*    How can helping another bring happiness to the helper?
*   What can you do to “help someone else” on a regular basis?
*   Are there individuals, or community/environmental/political/religious organizations you might help? Journal who they might be and how you might be able to offer to help them.

In Dr. Maffin’s own words her book will encourage the readers to connect more intimately with their spirituality and offer new ways to nurture their spirit. In the Epilogue she asks the last question: “ Who are you?” Having journaled through the prompts and questions, the answer(s) may surprise the reader.

The remaining parts of the book provide biographies of the quotation authors, listing of the prompts and soul-question titles, the Soulistry story and Soulistry retreats and workshops.

Dr. Maffin’s book is useful even for those who are not able to journal. It can be used at any time, any place, on any page at any prompt and it will immediately lead the reader to a moment of spiritual calm.

SOULISTRY should be kept as a guide for contemplation. And that is where the value of this slender volume lies.

Hana Komorous, Librarian, Christ Church Cathedral, Victoria, BC

A Book You Can Take With You !!, 23 Aug 2011

Soulistry is a simple book yet incredibly complex. It is a small book but hugely big. You can read it in an afternoon yet it can take a lifetime (or lifetimes) to fully absorb.

There is a saying that there is only one thing you can take with you – your evolution – and one thing you can leave behind – your art.   Thanks to June Maffin, the wisdom is this book is something you can take with you and what ‘soul-full’ art she has brought to the planet.

I gasped in delight as I pulled Soulistry from its shipping envelope and saw the delicate image of dandelion seeds drifting on a gentle breeze. I smiled at an image of June Maffin’s thoughts wafting like the seeds of that dandelion, and wondered if they would sprout and multiply like the humble dandelion in souls around the world.

I was not disappointed. The slender volume packs a virtual universe into 144 pages. The seeds are contained within 80 quotations and the probing questions that follow each. These pages contain enough journaling prompts to keep a person writing for years, exploring and expanding with each small thought. The source quotations demonstrate the expansiveness of Maffin’s personal spirituality, including Christian classics such as St. Augustine and Thomas Merton and branching out into the whole world — American Indian, Chinese proverbs, Lao Tzu, Buddha, Michelangelo, Mark Twain, Anaïs Nin, Desmond Tutu, Dalai Lama, Jesus … Without an overt word, she demonstrates that faith and spirit transcend boundaries of limiting belief structures.

The quotations and question-prompts would be a rich meal unto themselves, but she doesn’t leave it at that. The book begins with a brief Preface explaining how to get the greatest benefit from the book and a short Prologue that gently nudges anxiously questioning minds into soothing channels of encouragement. Any reader will appreciate at least a couple of her six appendices. She gives simple instructions for making your own Soulistry Journal volume and tells the inspiring story of the health affliction that led her to discover the combination of soul and artistry. Two more appendices will appeal to the inner organizer or librarian within many readers. She gives brief background sketches of each quoted person and lists the quotations alphabetically by the titles she assigned.

Even if you never write a word, this uplifting volume will give you plenty to think about, but your life will be much richer if you do record your responses to prompts. Orderly souls may prefer to begin with the first and work their way through in an orderly fashion. Free Spirits may pick and choose, selecting those quotes and prompts that resonate most strongly on any given day. Some may prefer to write simple, spontaneous answers and move on. Others may spend hours over a period of days or weeks drilling deeply into specific questions, fully mining their riches. However you use this book, your life will be richer for letting Maffin’s simple seeds take root in your soul.

Sharon Lippincott
StoryCircle Book Reviewer

http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org/reviews/soulistry.shtml

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Those familiar with the Artist’s Way or with popular modern therapies, know well the importance of journaling. Morning pages, the stream of consciousness daily deposit advocated by Julia Cameron, reveals to those who write them the mysteries of their moods and an eventual break to inner chatter. Many authors, inspired by Cameron’s effective system for breaking creative blocks, take Cameron’s wisdom and embellish it with their own methods, giving Artist’s Way travelers and their ilk next steps after the prescribed twelve weeks of creative focus pass.

June Mack Maffin’s own spin on creative recovery poses questions to the reader; Socrates himself might crib notes. The book consists of a series of questions to prompt creative journaling and intense introspection. An explorer of the inner planes face puzzles such as “Loving Your Enemy” and “Peace Within” followed by questions that rifle memories for the birthplace of attitudes and open doors to ideas unconsidered.

Soulistry takes the work of Cameron and pushes the borders: many of the questions reveal details about the soul a journaling person might feel unprepared to receive. A person needing inner work can get much out of this book; Maffin’s questions lead to deeper personal questions that delve into hidden aspects of self.

~review by Diana Rajchel
“Facing North: A Community Project”

Author: June Mack Maffin
Circle Books
pp. 132, $13.95

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Sunday, 24 July 2011 16:44

I have written daily in a spiritual journal for more than thirty years.  It began in response to an invitation - not unlike the one June Maffin extends here – only it was a different time and place for me. Still, her welcome encouragement speaks to me after all these years.

The author offers both excitement and adventure in new spiritual growth that continues to intrigue me. That is the thing about real spirituality – the possibilities for internal renewal continue to be limitless – whether you are a beginner, or a person with considerable experience.
As I engage this book, I see quickly that it is the product of a good deal of faithful living and spiritual investment. From her experience has come a rich harvest of understanding that is readily evident in the material. June has known some difficult challenges in her spiritual journey, but from what I know of her, I have always admired the balance and equanimity with which she faces life’s problems.
A point about the 80 Soulistry Journal Prompts and Soul-Questions that constitute almost 90 pages of the book. She includes the wisdom of a wide-range of spiritual guides – some of whom are Christian and some of whom are not. In this, she shows that the spirit of God is not limited or confined to a particular faith. But at the same time – she reveals through such quotes – the broadness and depth of her own Christian life.
She demonstrates that one can grow in spiritual maturity only if one has a solid grounding upon which to stand. That maturity is not always found today but when she quotes persons I know personally or with whom I have had a long-standing reading acquaintance, I realize that she is not simply ‘spiritual name-dropping’ but has solid reasons for quoting such people. They have become intimate partners in her own spiritual quest. She includes a biographical listing of all her contributors, which I found helpful - especially for the less familiar names.
Don’t read this book because you want to collect a string of quotes or impress people with your literary prowess. Read it because you sense a depth and quality in the person quoted. For example, one of her subjects is also a person to whom I owe a great deal of respect and appreciation. Herb O’Driscoll, a colleague of this list and a retired priest of the Anglican Church of Canada is a wonderfully creative preacher and writer. The author quotes these words from him: ”Come and journey, journey upward. Sing God’s praises. Offer prayer. In the storm and in the stillness. Find God’s presence everywhere.”  (pp. 36-7) This is but one example of many I could mention; but why not secure the book and meet other inspiring mentors and guides in the process?
Thanks, June, for creating this very fine spiritual reading-companion.  I will treasure and return to it often; and am sure that many others will do the same.

Looking for a tonic? Try an elixir for the spirit

By: Diana Swift
staff writer


Soulistry. In case you’re wondering, “soulistry” is a neologism coined by the Rev. Dr. June Mack Maffin as shorthand for artistry of the soul. Her new book of the same name, published April 29 and subtitled “Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality,” is a spring tonic that speaks to the very essence of us. It’s trip into the élan vital.

The book guides readers through soul journeying and soul journalling, prompting them to have profound written conversations with themselves and with the mystery that lies at the heart of existence. Keeping a spiritual diary as a tool of self-discovery, soul travellers work their way through a series of  Journal Prompts—inspiring quotations that lead to Soul-Questions. Their responses to those questions are designed to help them know themselves more intimately, to clarify what they really believe about life, relationships and important issues, and to help them grow fully into their humanity.

The almost 80 catalyst quotations harvest the wisdom of sage minds from different walks, faiths and ages—pebbles for the spiritual pocket that can be taken out and appreciated at any time, in any order. Slake your spiritual thirst on topics ranging from faith and hope to goodness, mystery and wisdom with citations from ancient Chinese proverbs, Buddha, Christ, Navajo chants, Khalil Gibran, and Dag Hammarskjöld. Each quotation is followed by thought-provoking questions.  Here are two of many that got my attention.

The whole secret of the spiritual life is just this painful struggle to come awake, to become fully conscious.—Gerald Heard

“What does ‘to come awake, to become fully conscious’ mean for you? Have your life, your spiritual journey as ‘struggle’ as ‘painful’? If so, how?”

Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.  Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect. — Chief Seattle

“Reflect on the ‘web of life’ metaphor. How do you see yourself as ‘but one thread within’ the web of life?”

Maffin, an ebullient Anglican priest and spiritual workshop director based in Duncan, B.C., on Vancouver Island, began working on this soul-soothing book a few years ago when her body was racked with pain from mercury poisoning, her muscles atrophying and her mind foggy, unclear and incapable of concentration. “For a year, even reading was a challenge,” she says.

The Montreal-born Maffin’s career path has been more varied than most. Sent to elocution class to cure a stutter, the young Maffin was discovered by a producer and became a teenage TV personality, which parlayed itself into her appointment as Canadian editor of a U.S. teen magazine. She studied sociology at Concordia University, taught high school in Montreal and was considering law but digressed into seminary and the priesthood. She holds a PhD in pastoral theology and is the author of an earlier book Disturbed by God. Nowadays, Maffin focuses principally on her ministry of Soulistry, acting as a workshop and retreat leader to help people make the connection between creativity and spirituality, thereby nurturing their souls.

Asked how spirituality differs from emotionality and intellectuality, Maffin replies, “Spirituality gets at the very essence of who and what you really are and what you believe about the important things in life.”

Soulistry Circle Books, 2011, $13.95. Available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, The Book Depository and local bookstores.

Many of us yearn for spiritual connection or, once connected, spiritual growth, but don’t know how to begin on that path.  Some of us don’t know how to look at our lives, without automatically seeing only the negative — the imperfections and what hasn’t been accomplished. Others of us have done some spiritual work and then stopped — uncertain how to continue.

Many of us strive for greater understanding of how the spirit operates in our lives and how to nurture that spirit. Or, we feel stuck and yearn to become unstuck and to develop a practice to follow. For seekers such as these, The Rev. Dr. June Maffin’s Soulistry — Artistry of the Soul, will be a great gift.

The practice Maffin outlines begins with buying or creating a Soulistry Journal (instructions provided), and writing in it.

Journal entries are personal, not necessarily to be shared. The practice includes considering quotations from individuals whose wisdom Maffin has found useful (called Journal Prompts) and Soul-Questions which, together with the Prompts, can spark a thought, a memory, a question, together challenging the seeker to connect more intimately with one’s spirituality. The act of responding to the Prompts and Soul-Questions is itself a spiritual task, for Maffin states that order is not important. Find a Soul-Question that “speaks” to you, she says. Journaling these responses may be a new experience or something you’ve done before, perhaps under other circumstances or with other intentions. “Soulistry” is a coined word combining two words — soul and artistry — and was created by Maffin together with her son, hence the references to Soulistry Journal, Soul Space, and Soul-Questions. Some will find these words helpful, others, incidental. What all will find nurtures the spirit is the prompting of the quotations, and — especially for those who were feeling stuck, the list of Prompts/Questions already prepared for consideration.

The care with which Maffin has developed the series of activities is made evident by the instructions for making a Soulistry Journal: she describes what’s required, what’s optional, where to cut, fold or sew, and how to complete the Journal. Even those who consider ourselves inept will discover how easily we can accomplish this task. Since journal writing is meant to be a personal conversation with oneself and God, writing responses to the Journal Prompts and Soul-Questions help clarify what you believe. Even here, Maffin offers options to consider. It’s not obligatory that journal writing be solely personal; some might find it helpful to seek guidance from a counselor or spiritual director, she writes. The sources of the quotations — what Maffin refers to as Journal Prompts — are wide-ranging, some from the Christian tradition, others not; some names known to all, others, less familiar. These include spiritual leaders such as Thich Nhat Hanh, philosophers Martin Buber and Gerald Heard, Chief Seattle, poets Anne Sexton, Robert Frost and Langston Hughes, thinker/educator Confucius, Francis of Assisi, Julian of Norwich, Gandhi, Gordon Light, Thomas Merton and Herbert O’Driscoll. And Jesus. And many others.

My efforts with the practice Maffin has outlined taught me that the Prompts do indeed prompt reflection. And the Soul-Questions do cause one to dig deeper.

A final gift to the reader is Maffin’s description of how this book came to be.   Illness, healing, ‘stepping out in faith’: lived experience.


Book Review by Brenda Berck
St. Mary’s Kerrisdale
Published in TOPIC, Diocese of New Westminster newspaper    www.vancouver.anglican.ca (click on left side of screen for PDF link to the Summer 2011 issue of TOPIC where the above book review can be found.

Dr. June Maffin has marked the trail for all of us seeking a deeper, creative and more meaningful life. Amazon has released, artid member June Maffin’s guide to the within. Entitled Soulistry, Artistry of the Soul. June has thoughtfully structured the book in such a way that the outcome of each person’s journey will be different depending on one’s answers. The questions are both road map and compass to an often overlooked destination — the elusive “within.”

“Making changes in your life is difficult and requires work, so much so that many people are not willing to make the effort.”

Like so many explorers who kept a diary of their adventures, this guide to journal- keeping gently asks the questions that only the traveler can answer. A thoughtful read and a gentle gift for someone you love who is struggling with life’s questions.

Mary Lawler 
Artist, 
Marketing Director for ArtId (www.artid.com)

This is a book about questions; the little ponderings and the big life-changers. It’s also about breaking the questions down into manageable bits that can lead to illumination through “prompts”, explains author June Mack Maffin in “Soulistry – Artistry of the Soul”.

Many people go through life wondering, even worrying, about those BIG questions. “How do I deepen awareness? What is my purpose? Why am I here?” For most, these thoughts pass quickly, perhaps uncomfortably, as we get back to our day-to-day rote living. It’s too hard, inconvenient, or scary to change.

In many religious circles, you’re downright discouraged to question the mores set by the institution. Just follow the scriptures and their rules, give complete faith, and everything will be fine. Anything else may be seen as outright disrespect.

Maffin discounts all of that, saying it’s healthy to wonder, to challenge. Instead, use those as guides but find your own path too. A deeper, fuller belief of your morals and ethics, needs and desires will result.

Each chapter focuses on a theme such as mystery, faith or play, and begins with a quote from a historical or contemporary thinker e.g. “Questions That Speak” begins with an old Chinese proverb: “Those who ask questions may be a fool for five minutes, but those who do not are fools for life.” Maffin follows with her own queries for readers to ponder. “It’s been said that questions have more importance than answers. What questions have been more important to you than the answers?” Then go one level deeper: “Why?”

From there, the reader’s “work” begins: the answering. Maffin stresses to take this at your own pace as you sift through the mental and emotional layers. Going too fast keeps you on the surface. As St. Francis said: “May you be blessed with discomfort at easy answers … so that you may live deep in your heart …”

The vehicle to record the results of the searches, and begin the artistry side of the book’s title, begins with the journal itself. You can use a computer or scrap paper, but there is something about the act of writing in a specially chosen book that adds to the expereience.

Maffin offers different options for what to use as a journal, even including instructions to make your own. The over all design may show beauty, whimsey, or cogitation, or just a plain, anonymous look. Then there are practical considerations: its size and length, paper quality (lined? unlined?), and binding options. (ring-bound, soft or hard cover, stapled or stitched). Lastly, choose a pen or pencil that writes easily, comfortably; that brings your creativity alive.

It was actually through a chance encounter with a mirror that a creative spark was lit for Maffin and set her on the journey to write this book. She has a wide and varied professional background, receiving her Master of Divinity in 1985 when she was ordained in the Anglican Church of Canada then her Doctorate in Pastoral Care with an emphasis on Ethics in 1992. She has extensive experience in education, communications, media relations, and business and is a Certified Group Facilitator and Conference Speaker (in the areas of spirituality, circular leadership, total ministry and women’s leadership). Maffin’s focus in all these is to encourage people in their spirituality regardless of formalized religious involvement.

In 2004, Maffin became ill, in a lot of pain, and her work load was drastically limited. Sorting through some belongings one day, she came across a small, hand mirror and the idea to paint something bright on it hit her. As she did, she found her discomfort diminishing from the distraction and a surprise energy that urged her on. Her pain receded as her desire to make art increased. Friends started asking for instruction which led her to holding workshops, locally at first and now across North America.

It made sense for Maffin to combine her two passions in this project — spirituality and creativity. At 141 pages, this is a short book but jam-packed with insight. It is interactive yet personal. Revelationary. Even life-changing for some.

My only criticism is that more visual hands-on art and craft projects weren’t included that help begin or go deeper into the process. (A sequel?) Some jumping points for the reader to explore this on their own are hinted at, like adding images — your own or others’ inspirational works — on your journal pages.

In the end Maffin hopes the process and resulting journal brings readers some awareness, comfort and peace of mind into the often chaotic, confusing world we inhabit.

Who could ask for more?

Soulistry is right on target, suggesting that creative playfulness is a very important part of a lively spirituality. The Gospel of Matthew tells of Jesus saying that we need to become as little children in order to see the Kingdom of Heaven. Childlike creativity and playfulness improve our spiritual vision. We are encouraged to forget about expectations, our own and those of others, and to mount up as on eagles’ wings. Rise and fly. And then we will come to know that the Kingdom of Heaven is before us, around us, among us and within us.

In Soulistry, author June Maffin invites us to live in the context of playfulness, to breathe deeply of inspiration, to reach out and hold hands with imagination and creativity. Come on in; the Water’s fine! Get your “feet wet” in a Journal Prompt (a meaningful quotation), and play in the powerful tides and gentle waves of the Soulistry Soul-Questions. Take your time. Seek the thoughts and questions that stir your spirit, and journal a bit. Let your soul hop and skip and leap for joy! We are as little children playing — sometimes alone, sometimes with others, and always in the participating presence of God.

Let us play! May we say that as often and as earnestly as we say, “Let us pray!”


Michael Anne Haywood is a retired teacher of exceptional children. She lives in Winston-Salem, NC.

Feathered Quill reviewer: This beautifully creative, peaceful book will enable the reader to look within and peacefully nurture their soul while developing their spiritual nature.

It is during times of adversity that we begin to ponder the meaning of the universe and our very existence. Many begin to think they have nothing to offer the world and that nothing they ever did was worthwhile. Some dwell on all the wrongs that have been done to them, yet others move beyond the negative and look inward toward their souls and think about what they can give to others. June Mack Maffin was one whose strength and faith brought the Creator into her heart many years ago. Mercury poisoning had atrophied her limbs and had begun to silence her voice. It was a world that held nothing for her. Her inability to read kept her from traveling into a world beyond her suffering, yet one night she was moved to create beauty out of an object where there was none before.

June had pulled a mirror from a closet, not to reflect on her battered body, but to add a “variety of embellishments.” This simple act stimulated her right brain. Was there any hope for her? She began to dialogue with her Creator and he responded positively: “Develop your right brain. Healing will come.” (pg. 127) June unexpectedly became an artist and much later began to connect with her soul. This yearning was the spark that eventually led to the creation of Soulistry—Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality.” For years she began to collect quotations that would have great meaning to her. June expanded the collection and developed a series of intellectual, philosophical, spiritual, and soul-searching questions … “Soul-Questions.” These questions “will encourage you to connect more intimately with your spirituality.”

June briefly discusses two Greek dimensions of time, kairos and chronos. Chronos are those mundane activities we engage in daily without giving much thought to. Kairos are those with which we are able to “get in touch with our true selves.” Those may embrace things like the smile of a baby, the smell of a beautiful rose, the laughter of a child … the simple things that touch our soul. Each quotation in this book is followed by questions that ask you to reflect on moments in your life. June says that “Journal writings are meant to be personal conversations—with yourself/with yourself and God.” (pg. 1) The quotations are drawn from a variety of sources from all religions and people from all walks of life with questions that ask us to look inward and encourage us to “embrace life in new ways.”
As the reader browses this book they will immediately connect with June as she attempts to guide us to examine our lives and rejoice in our souls. “Soulistry” is the combination of two words, “soul” and “artistry.”

As I read I could easily see where I could pull from the questions and quotations and develop my artistic, creative side as well as nourish my soul. One need not journal to benefit from this work. For example, the “Soulistry Journal Prompt” quotation by Ella Wheeler Wilcox, “So many gods, so many creeds, so many paths that wind and wins while just the art of being kind is all the sad world needs,” easily makes us think about those around us. I found it quite easy to connect with kairos and leave the mundane behind for a while as I retreated. In the back of the book are brief biographical sketches of authors and a complete listing of Soulistry journal prompts (quotations).

Quill says: This beautifully creative, peaceful book will enable the reader to look within and peacefully nurture their soul while developing their spiritual nature.

Soulistry—Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality
By: June Mack Maffin
Publisher: O Books
Publication Date: April 2011
ISBN: 978-1846946158
Reviewed by: Deb Fowler, Feathered Quill
http://www.featheredquill.com/reviews/selfhelp/maffin.shtml

It was just a photo, that’s all
just a photo
- a photo of a young man in uniform hanging in a frame in a living room window.
What was it about that photo that grabbed at my heart?
What was it about that photo that created a deep chasm in my soul?
What was it about that photo that brought tears to my eyes
and gripped my chest so I couldn’t breathe?
It couldn’t be named.
I only knew that my soul had been touched
my mind raced
my emotions felt
and I understood them not.
Then, out of the corner of my eye, I noticed the salute.
The car’s driver saluted the photo quietly, quickly, calling no attention to himself.
For a moment, he was in another world
- a world that connected him to this young man
- a world that united them as siblings of conflict
- a world that reminded him of the fragility of life and the happenstance of circumstance.
He in the photo, eighteen or so.
He in the car, old enough to be grandfather.
And yet, for that one brief moment, they were brothers.
Salutes happen all the time every day, on every land, in every continent.
But this one …
This one was different.

Soulistry—Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality by June Maffin is a book of journal prompts and questions that are intended to make you think more deeply about the spiritual aspects of your being. She stresses the importance of the Soul-Questions as being that of clarifying what you believe and think about relationships, issues, life, and yourself. The guide is broken up into a number of short chapters, each consisting of a prompt on a specific topic and related questions. Each prompt consists of a relatively short quotation of a few lines that Maffin has taken from the work of a wide range of spiritually informed and wise teachers who have shared their deepest thoughts with their disciples and followers over the ages. These individuals, for whom she provides a short biography at the end of the book, come from across the world, across cultures and across religions. The topics that Maffin covers include all the basic human emotions, including fear, joy, gratitude, and love, as well as a host of other spiritually related aspects of being. The number of questions that she asks per topic is less than ten, and usually four or more. You could either consider them by yourself, or in a small encounter group or workshop. Each question is probing and direct, being meant to stimulate your thinking and to advance your journey towards spiritual awareness and health.

Maffin has found, over the years, that she has experienced spiritual growth as she has asked Soul-Questions of herself, and that is the purpose of this guide to greater spiritual awareness: she wishes to encourage you, the reader, “to connect more intimately with your spirituality.” Maffin’s approach is logical and rational—she provides you with guidance every inch of the way, so that throughout the book she acts as your spiritual mentor and guide.

Maffin recommends that, when reading this book, you should keep a journal in which to record your responses to the Soul-Questions that she asks, after you have reflected on the Soulistry Journal Prompts that she provides. If you have never before done any form of journaling, she provides a brief and simple guide on how you can set about doing so. The Journal can also be used for any other questions that arise from those already asked. Maffin also teaches you how physically to make a Soulistry journal from basic materials.

Maffin concludes Soulistry—Artistry of the Soul by explaining how, when she was suffering from mercury poisoning, she found that developing her artistic potential enabled her to overcome the pain that she was experiencing at the time. Using her own learning curve as an educator, Creative Spirituality Artist, writer, and spiritual director / soul friend, she came to develop a series of Soulistry Workshops and Retreats, which she has held since then all over North America and Europe.  Soulistry—Artistry of the Soul encapsulates such work and makes it available to a wider audience than might otherwise have been possible.

All those who are keen to advance their spiritual awareness would be well advised to acquire this helpful and thought-provoking guide.

Lois Henderson, BookPleasures reviewer (www.bookpleasures.com) has a MA General Linguistics, BA (English) Honor, lives in South Africa  and “is available for reviewing and indexing books of a spiritual nature at any time. Please contact loiscourtenayhenderson@gmail.com if you would like a review or index done.”

Soulistry is a magic word of open soul searching.  Here is a book that promotes love, kindness, health, wisdom and happiness.  It will awaken your body, mind and spirit”

Henry Landry, Author, Philosopher, Buddhist Teacher  www.penlan.com


Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.   Some say that Reginald is ugly.  Plain, ordinary, ugly.

His legs are bowed.  His arms are pudgy.  His ears are big.  His body is out of shape.  His eyes bulge.  His ears are large – very large.  He’s the size of a three year old and his clothes are all hand-me-downs.  His neck is short and almost non-existent.  His mouth is – well, his mouth is … yes, some would say – “ugly”.

For more than two decades, I have loved Reginald.  He speaks words that penetrate deep to the heart of the hearer when he preaches … he makes me laugh … he listens with intentionality and concentration … he … Well, there’s just so much that I love about him.   Ugly?  Not at all!

To everyone who meets him, he is a delight.   He helps people forget their worries and fears.  He brings smiles to their faces.  One Christmas Eve, he appeared in the pulpit of a church … literally “in” the pulpit — sitting on top of the lectern.  People listened.  People learned.  People loved.  In him, people saw beauty.

Why do we allow society to dictate what is beautiful, of value, worthwhile … and what is not?   Why do some people have difficulty seeing themselves as a precious child of the universe who is blessed – who has gifts to share … beauty to reflect … intelligence to use … wisdom to impart, while at the same time, much yet to learn?

Reginald sits at my feet as I finish this little writing … smiling at me.  If you’d like to meet Reginald — scroll down a bit.  :-)

As you can see, Reginald is not a human being.  He was created in a day-long puppet-making workshop.  When I had sewn on his last arm and began to put clothes on him, other participants laughed. They said he was ugly and that my creation was “anything but creative or artistic.”  They were wrong.

Reginald reflects Margaret Wolfe Hungerford’s famous words that ”beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

I look at Reginald and I see beauty.  I look at my family and I see beauty.  I look at my neighbourhood and I see beauty.  I look at my friends and I see beauty.  I look at this world and I see beauty.

The Creator does not make junk.  The Creator makes beauty — and Reginald helps me remember to look at the world and all who inhabit it, in a special way.   Beauty.  It is all around.

We just need eyes to see.

A Conversation With Dr. June (Mack) Maffin Author Of Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture your Spirituality by  Norm Goldman, Publisher & Editor of Bookpleasures.com

Today, Bookpleasures.com is honored to have as our guest Dr. June (Mack) Maffin who has just completed her third book, Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture your Spirituality (to be published April 29, 2011 and now available for pre-orders on Amazon sites) and is now working on her next book.

Dr. Maffin has had a variety of careers: broadcaster, writer, television personality, educator, book & magazine editor, spiritual director, retreat leader, ordained minister, school chaplain, Creative Spirituality Artist, conference speaker, and BookPleasures.com reviewer.

Ordained in the Anglican Church of Canada, June received her Doctorate in pastoral care with an emphasis on Ethics and in addition to the “Soulistry” book, authored “Disturbed by God: A Journey of Spiritual Discovery” which is available in paperback through Amazon, B & N, Book Depository, Chapters/Indigo and local booksellers and as an ebook from Amazon.


Norm: Good day June and thanks for participating in our interview

June: Thank you for the invitation, Norm. I’m delighted to be one of your interviewees.

Norm: How did you get started in writing?

June: Words have always fascinated me. As a young child who stuttered, verbal expression was uncomfortable for many years. So, I often wrote notes. After reading The Diary of Anne Frank, I was captivated by the writing of a girl close to my age and began journaling – only in those days it was called “keeping a diary.” In my teens, I was invited to be the Canadian editor of a well-known American teen magazine and a few years later, had the opportunity to co-write a children’s television program. Then came preaching every week, monthly newspaper columns and creating liturgies and rituals for churches and retreat centres. Writing became my way of expression as a child and has continued to this day.

Norm: What keeps you going?

June: Four things: love of the written word, the gentle encouragement of the Creator, the privilege of making a difference in the lives of readers, and the joy that comes as words become transformed into sentences and paragraphs.

Norm: Who or what has influenced your writing?

June: Along with the ups and downs of life, influences have included two excellent high school English teachers who offered constructive critiques, parents whose encouragement was both challenging and affirming, and photographs I take and use to challenge myself to write accompanying PhotoMeditations for my website and blog.

Norm: How has your education informed your writing?

June: I’m a voracious reader and lifelong learner and while early formal education clearly gave me tools of history, grammatical structure, excellent and not-so-excellent poetic and prose writing examples, the doctoral program offered me license to think-outside-the-box. Life’s difficult moments (two separate medical diagnoses decades apart that I was dying, divorce, life below the poverty level as the single mother of a seriously-ill child, hospitalizations, car accidents, arson of my home, and diagnosis of mercury poisoning) became informal-educational-moments and taught me the importance of written self-reflection and writing regardless of whether or not there is an audience

Norm: What was one of the most surprising things you learned in creating your books?

June: I’ve never set out to ‘write a book’ and though I’ve just completed my third published work, what surprises me the most is how gently each book has evolved from an initial concept to the final edit. Writing is never ‘work’ though it does take a lot of time. Writing for me is a gift, oftentimes healing and always a privilege.

Norm: Do you feel that writers, regardless of genre owe something to readers? If not, why not? If so, why and what would that be?

June: Integrity. I believe that writers need to approach their work with the integrity of offering everything they possibly can in terms of the technical aspects of writing: grammar, syntax, punctuation, tight editing etc. along with their personal sense of integrity as they write from a perspective of authenticity.

Norm: Can you explain to our audience what is Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul?

June: SOULISTRY is a coined word combining SOUL and artISTRY. It’s an umbrella word for various activities (workshops, retreats, publications) that connect spirituality with creativity. It’s about helping people uncover the invisible presence of the holy, both in the visible world and invisible world, within.

A bit of background: Several years ago, I was diagnosed with mercury poisoning. It was a life-changing moment. Within 48 hours, the mercury moved into my body. My muscles (leg, arm, voice) began to atrophy leaving me unable to walk more than a few steps or speak above a whisper. The reading function of my brain ground to a halt. Sleepless nights, long days of exhaustion, pain, medical complications and doctor’s appointments became my way of life. I was aware that depression often occurs with those dealing with chronic illness and didn’t want to go that route.

Unable to sleep one night, I found myself looking at the top shelf of my office closet and before I knew it, I had taken a plain, wooden framed mirror and started adding embellishments. As I played and created, the pain seemed to lessen and eventually I was able to sleep. In the morning when I saw the mirror, I was struck by its beauty and simplicity and sensed that some new thing was happening. I could feel my spirit soaring! A part of my brain was working – my right brain. I wondered whether I could activate left-brain activity through right brain functions. And slowly, the creation of soul-artistry: Soulistry began.

Over time, left brain function and atrophying muscles started to function once again. People saw the mirrors and art cards that I’d begun to exhibit in craft fairs, and asked if I’d teach them how to make their own. Part of an intentional effort to move the mercury out of my body, a plan began to emerge – offer workshops and retreats. As an educator, it was a lovely and welcome challenge.

Designing and facilitating the workshops and retreats became a significant part of the healing process. Eventually, Soulistry moved from creating art cards and MirrorMeditations, to facilitating workshops and retreats, speaking at conferences about the connection between art and soul, and now to the writing of the Soulistry book. For me, Soulistry is a story of grace. Unexpected and gentle, its evolution has been filled-with-wonder … wonderful … and grace-filled!

Norm: What served as the primary inspiration for Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul?

June:  Quotations.  I’ve been collecting them for decades. They’ve found their way into my journaling, blogs and Facebook Wall posts; on yellow Sticky notes; as bookmarks; on my office bulletin board; into classrooms and sermons. Because of the mercury poisoning, I couldn’t read for almost a year but, as the reading function slowly returned, I began by reading short quotations, so it’s not surprising that they became an integral part of the Soulistry book.

There are almost 80 inspirational quotations from ordinary and extraordinary human beings – artists, philosophers, historians, poets, theologians, writers, calligraphers, lyricists (such as Joan Chittister, Martin Buber, Margaret Guenther, Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Aristotle, John Wesley, Paul Tournier, the Dalai Lama, Solomon ibn Gabirol, Meister Eckhart, Mahatma Gandhi, Jesus of Nazareth, Joy Harjo, Mattie Stepanek, Kahlil Gibran, Wangari Maathai and many more around the world living in different centuries) and accompanying Soul-Questions which draw the reader’s attention to the connection between the sacred and secular, creativity and spirituality, art and soul … challenging, nurturing and encouraging the reader’s spiritual journey in a unique way.

Norm: Where did you get your information and ideas for Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture your Spirituality?

June: As I read the quotations, questions (Soul-Questions) emerged. I spent time reflecting on the answers and found myself experiencing a gentle spiritual growth. In a “be still” moment of quiet reflection one morning, the idea for a book began. Slowly, quotations were selected, Soul-Questions were written and the process of seeking copyright permission began. With each step, I experienced my brain regenerating its cells. Nothing scientific … just an abiding awareness that it was happening. The idea for a Soulistry book deepened and work on the quotations/Soul-Questions continued.  When the publisher of a new imprint of a well-respected publishing house enquired about whehter I might consider publishing with them, I realize the gift of such an offer and the wisdom of exploring such a possibility.  I agreed and began to select quotations of ordinary and extraordinary people with a variety of ages, beliefs, living in different cultures and times; completed writing accompanying Soul-Questions; wrote mini-biographies of each of the quotation authors; and finished getting copyright permission to use the quotations.

Norm: What would you say is the best reason to recommend someone to read the Soulistry book?

June: My hope is that the Soulistry book will deepen the awareness of the presence of the holy in its readers in “all of the acts” of their day and help readers experience spiritual growth regardless of connection with any form of religion.

Because more and more people are becoming aware of the importance of balance in their lives (physically, intellectually and spiritually), there is a growing indefinable awareness that being spiritual is a vital component of being human, not only for those with a religious belief/practice, but those for whom there is no discernible connection with organized religion, no acknowledgment of the existence of God/Holy Other/Creator/Higher Power/G_d, no awareness or understanding of themselves as having a purpose in life. The Soulistry book seeks to encourage a re-connection with that intangible soul-essence of life.

Norm: Do you have anything specific that you want to say to your readers?

June: Thank you, Norm. I offer my deep gratitude to each reader be they blog, website, Facebook pages, newspaper/magazine articles or reader of one of my books. I love writing and it is a humbling privilege not only to write, but to have people who appreciate the words that come forth.

Norm: Where can our readers find out more about you and your books?

June: About the books: There’s a Soulistry page on Facebook, the Soulistry website has pages for each published book and a separate page for Soulistry book reviews  and I’ve recently learned that there is a page on the Amazon sites for pre-orders of both the e-book and regular book format.

About me: Personal pages on Twitter, LinkedIn and Facebook will find me – and there’s always a Google search.  :-)

Norm: As this interview draws to a close, what one question would you have liked me to ask you? Please share your answer.

June: How about … “How does the ministry of Soulistry connect with your ministry as an ordained woman?”

Carl Jung wrote somewhere that the role of a priest is to reawaken the spiritual and the imaginative dimension of life in people. I like that and find that just as the warp and weft of fabric are woven together into a piece of cloth, the ministry of Soulistry and ministry as ordained woman are integrated in my life even though I’m not aware of where one ends and the other begins.

My sense is that they meet in a spirituality of play – though in today’s intense world of terrorism, disasters, broken relationships, global economic crises and other stressors, a spirituality of play may seem to be a curious matter.

I love it that Hindus speak of the creation of the universe as the ‘play of God.’ I believe that when I play; when I enjoy the fullness of life with its curiosities, frivolities and insensibilities; when I don’t take myself too seriously; when I laugh and delight in life in playful ways, I allow my spirit to breathe and re-create.

It’s nothing that was taught in seminary, but believing that laughter and play are holy and healing has kept me close to God through some difficult times. I have found that a spirituality of play helped me live with absurdity, pain, paradox, sleepless nights, mystery and more, and that such a spirituality of play opened doors of intuition, vulnerability, child-like joy, healing, spontaneity, flexibility and hope in my life. So it’s not surprising to me that a spirituality of play finds a home in Soulistry – and me.

Thanks again June and good luck with all of your future endeavors

Thanks, Norm. I’ve appreciated this opportunity to share something of my love of (and passion for) the written word with your readers.

I wish you much continued success with BookPleasures. May it continue to rise to the challenge of providing excellent reviews by reviewers from all walks of life and all corners of the world for many more years.

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Greetings of Happy New Year abound on the Internet, in the streets, shops, phone calls.  A smile is on the face, hope in the heart, optimism in the stride.  A new year is here – time to begin anew.  And so we hope … make resolutionsthat will lead us to say or do those things we ought to have said or done or to not say or not do those things we ought not to have done” … dreamed … prayed … anticipated a new beginning.

Our intentions are honourable. We are genuine in our attempt to forgive (ourself or another); honest in our attitu

des to the persons or situations which coloured our memories of 2010; humble and sincere in our inward search to ‘begin anew’.

So, we make lists (either on paper or in our mind) of intentions for action aka ‘resolutions’ … spend more time with loved ones … write those letters that seem to put to the bottom of the “to do” pile … be on time … organize photos … get more exercise … do the mending … stop procrastinating … go back to – or start going – to a church/synagogue/mosque/temple … get caught up on the professional journals that are piling up … begin Christmas shopping earlier next year … enjoy the world-around-us/nature more often … visit friends who are ill in hospital … take a leisurely stroll at sunset … make the bed every morning … write in journal … get caught up on the paperwork … eat more nutritionally … lose weight … and the list goes on.

But the reality is that it all boils down to accessing how we plan to spend our time in the New Year. What specifically will we do with the precious 24 hours of each day ahead of us for the next 52 weeks – those 3,760 hours? Will we be good caretakers/stewards of the time given us?

The Greeks used two words to explain the different dimensions of time – “chronos” and “kairos”.

For most of us, the time we speak of in our day-to-day activities is the chronos kind: the pedantic, clock-watch

ing, systematic notation or organization of our time. It’s those scheduled activities, or daily rituals like going to work or school or volunteer activities. It’s doing the laundry, picking up the groceries, putting out the garbage, taking the children to their after-school activities.

We’re all so very good when it comes to the “chronos” portions of our lives – those things that are noted chronologically — work, meetings, events, activities, medical appointments, “don’t forget’s.” Many of us have 2011 calendars already partially filled-in.

The “kairos” time of our lives is more elusive. It’s those treasured moments when we take time to simply “be”; when we get in touch with our true selves; when we understand ourselves … in relation to our Creator; when we see the miracles about us and know, beyond all knowing from an intellectual point of view, that there is something (SomeOne), whatever name we entrust to that Essence, greater than ourselves.

It’s those moments we spend sitting by the bedside of a sick child quietly reading a book … seeing a newborn baby … watching a caterpillar burst into a beautiful butterfly … noting the formation of clouds on the horizon … being reassured by the gentle purring of a cat or nuzzling of a dog … hearing a piece of music that sends shivers up our spine … reading a portion of Scripture we’ve read countless times before and having it ‘leap’ from the page with a meaning we’d never before encountered … receiving and giving a hug … having a smile returned by a stranger … enjoying that prayer time in the tub or shower or car on the way to work or church pew or favorite chair … being aware of the gift of our breath unassisted by mechanical means … holding the hand of someone who is dying … sitting in silence before the ocean or fireplace and hearing, in that silence, an affirmation that you are a person the Creator chose to call into being and that you are deeply loved … slowing eating a meal and truly tasting and appreciating … receiving a gift from another who, for no reason, chose to bless your day by giving you a present of time or material possession … having fun in the kitchen making a casserole or cookies you’ll share with another … gasping at the rainbow that arcs across the horizon … walking through a cemetary and being aware of the frailty and fragility of your life … laughing a deep, from the belly-kind-of-laugh.

So what about the kairos portions of our lives? Will we take time to ’smell the flowers’ … recognize healing and compassionate presence in another’s smile, touch, phone call, visit, letter, embrace, handshake, eye contact, tears … encounter silence and solitude as ‘gift’ from the Creator … see beyond the immediate moment and experience a global connectedness? as illustrated by the following story:

When a man, who had just had a serious asthmatic attack and, for a few moments couldn’t breathe, recovered, he remarked “For the first time in my life, I understand that life and time are gifts! We think we have all the time in the world – and then we discover, so suddenly, we don’t!”

Many are asking ’soul-questions’ these days – what with concerns about terrorism, the global economy, the housing market crisis, their own personal/medical crises and more. They’ve lost their ability to play, to delight, to be amazed, to forgive, to be in awe, to be creative. Their connection with spirit is tenuous.

Remember that often-quoted proverb: “Don’t put off to tomorrow what you can do today”? It’s usually addressed to those ‘chronos’ activities of our lives. Might 2011 be the year to consider new ways of connecting more intimately with your spirituality … to reflect on the “kairos” moments and people of your life?

Happy New Year! May both the chonos and kairos moments bring blessings into your life far more than you can ask or imagine.

[June (Mack) Maffin is author of the book "Soulistry-Artistry of the Soul: Creative Ways to Nurture Your Spirituality" (published April 29, 2011, now available on Amazon http://bit.ly/hU2oW9 for pre-orders) and moderates the Facebook  Soulistry page  www.facebook.com/soulistry].  She can be found at Facebook www.facebook.com/junemaffin


It has been a humbling privilege to sit with those who are dying; counsel those who are grieving; create rituals to ease the transition from life to death; serve as a Living with Cancer chaplain; preside at funerals/memorial services.   While I still serve in these capacities, “Sacred Death” and “Holy Grief” workshops, retreats and conferences are also offered under the Soulistry umbrella

To book a “Sacred Death” or “Holy Grief” workshop, retreat or conference for your group/organization, please contact Soulistry founder: junemaffin at gmail dot com   To learn more about these offerings, set your browser to: http://www.soulistry.com/sacred-death-holy-grieving

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